BIG SUR CALIFORNIA ELOPEMENT PLANNING GUIDE
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Dream it.
Picture yourself standing at the edge of the world, where ancient redwoods meet dramatic coastal cliffs. Big Sur isn't just a destination - it's a place where nature's grandeur takes your breath away at every turn. From hidden caves and secluded beaches to misty forest trails, each vista offers a new perspective of California's most iconic coastline.
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Plan it
Planning your Big Sur elopement should be as beautiful as your love story. As your photographer and guide, I'll help you navigate everything - from finding that perfect ceremony spot under towering redwoods to securing the right permits for your dream location. Whether you envision an intimate moment at sunset along the coast or a celebration surrounded by ancient forest, I'll share insider knowledge to ensure your day unfolds exactly as you imagine.
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Experience it.
Your elopement day deserves to be extraordinary, and Big Sur provides the perfect backdrop for your love story. Together, we'll create moments that feel authentically you - whether that's sharing your first look in a secluded redwood grove, exchanging vows on a dramatic cliff overlooking the Pacific, or celebrating with a champagne picnic as the sun sets. Having photographed countless couples in these magical landscapes, I know exactly how to capture your day in a way that's both epic and intimate.
Getting Here
Big Sur isn't a single destination but rather a 90-mile stretch of California's central coast along Highway 1. While its remote location is part of its charm, it also requires some planning. Here's everything you need to know about reaching and navigating Big Sur.
Nearest Airports
Monterey Regional Airport (MRY) - Closest option, 45 minutes to Big Sur
San Jose International (SJC) - 2.5 hours to Big Sur
San Francisco International (SFO) - 3 hours to Big Sur
Driving Distances
From San Francisco: 3 hours
From Monterey: 45 minutes
From Los Angeles: 6 hours
From Carmel: 30 minutes
Essential Driving Tips
Highway 1 Navigation
Fill your gas tank before entering Big Sur - stations are limited and expensive
Download offline maps - cell service is extremely limited
Allow extra travel time - the road is winding and scenic stops are irresistible
Check road conditions before departing at dot.ca.gov/caltrans-near-me/district-5
Parking & Turnouts
Use designated turnouts for photos and scenic views
Never park on shoulder areas marked with "NO PARKING" signs
Many popular spots have small lots that fill early - arrive before 10am
Keep a quarter tank of gas minimum - stations are 40 miles apart
Important Travel Notes
Cell Service & Navigation
Download Google Maps offline before your trip
Screenshot directions and key information
Don't rely on cell service for navigation or communication
WiFi is available at some restaurants and lodges
Weather Considerations
Fog can appear suddenly, especially in summer mornings
Rain can cause temporary road closures in winter
Check weather forecasts before departure
Pack layers - temperatures can vary dramatically
Emergency Preparedness
Save emergency numbers in your phone
Keep a basic roadside emergency kit
Bring plenty of water
Carry cash - not all locations accept cards
Seasonal Travel Tips
Summer (Peak Season)
Expect heavy traffic, especially weekends
Make lodging reservations well in advance
Start early to secure parking at popular spots
Winter
Check road conditions frequently
Be prepared for possible closures
Carry rain gear and warm layers
Spring & Fall
Best times for moderate traffic
More availability for accommodations
Pleasant weather for outdoor activities
Best time to visit Big Sur for your Elopement.
Big Sur is stunning year-round, but choosing the right season for your elopement can make a big difference in your experience. Let's explore each season to help you find the perfect time to say "I do."
Season-by-Season Guide
Spring (March - May)
Weather: 60-70°F, occasional rain showers
Best For: Wildflower blooms, vibrant greenery, moderate temperatures
Elopement Tip: Mid-week ceremonies in April and May offer perfect weather and fewer tourists
Photography Note: Spring fog can create ethereal morning photos in the redwoods
Summer (June - August)
Weather: 70-80°F, morning fog, clearer afternoons
Best For: Reliable weather, longer daylight hours
Elopement Tip: Early morning ceremonies avoid peak tourist times
Photography Note: Summer's "marine layer" creates soft, dreamy light for coastal photos
Fall (September - October)
Weather: 60-70°F, typically clear skies
Best For: Warm days, clear views, golden afternoon light
Elopement Tip: September weekdays offer ideal conditions with fewer crowds
Photography Note: Golden hour creates magical lighting for clifftop ceremonies
Winter (November - February)
Weather: 50-60°F, potential rain
Best For: Dramatic ocean views, intimate moments
Elopement Tip: Clear winter days offer the most privacy
Photography Note: Storm clouds and moody skies create dramatic backdrops
Peak vs. Off-Peak Timing
Peak Season (June - October)
Higher tourist traffic, especially weekends
Advanced bookings essential for accommodations
Premium pricing for venues and lodging
Off-Peak Season (November - May)
More intimate experience
Better availability for venues
More competitive pricing
Higher chance of weather considerations
Important Considerations
Wildfire Season (July - October)
Monitor local conditions
Have backup locations ready
Consider air quality for outdoor ceremonies
Some locations may have restricted access
Crowd Management
Weekday ceremonies recommended year-round
Early morning (before 10am) or sunset ceremonies avoid peak tourist hours
Some locations are naturally more private than others
Time of Day Tips
Sunrise Ceremonies: Most private, beautiful light
Mid-Morning: Good lighting, moderate crowds
Late Afternoon: Best for golden hour photos
Sunset: Romantic but can be busy at popular spots
Planning Around Weather
Microclimates
Coast can be 5-10° cooler than inland areas
Morning fog common in summer
Redwoods provide natural shelter from elements
Different locations can have dramatically different weather same day
Weather Backup Plans
Consider indoor ceremony options during rainy season
Book venues with both indoor and outdoor spaces
Plan flexible timeline to work around weather
Consider having a getting-ready location near your ceremony site
Pro Tips for Choosing Your Date
Choose Weekdays: Less crowded, more intimate experience
Consider Sunrise: Most private time of day year-round
Book Off-Season: More location options, better pricing
Avoid Holiday Weekends: Extremely crowded, difficult parking
Plan Around Sunset: Times vary significantly by season
Remember, every season in Big Sur offers its own unique magic for elopements. The key is choosing a time that matches your vision while being prepared for the natural elements that make Big Sur so special.
Carmel Highlands & Monterey Region Accommodations
Carmel Highlands
Hyatt Carmel Highlands
Direct Booking: hyatt.com/carmel
Tickle Pink Inn
Direct Booking: ticklepinkinn.com/reservations
Monterey
InterContinental The Clement Monterey
Direct Booking: intercontinental.com/monterey
Monterey Plaza Hotel & Spa
Direct Booking: montereyplazahotel.com
Portola Hotel & Spa
Direct Booking: portolahotel.com
Pacific Grove
Seven Gables Inn
Direct Booking: sevengablesinn.com
Asilomar Hotel & Conference Grounds
Direct Booking: visitasilomar.com
Booking Tips
Book 6-8 months ahead for peak seasons
Consider shoulder season for better rates (October-November, March-April)
Many properties offer elopement packages
Ask about photography locations on property
Check cancellation policies carefully
Inquire about special access for elopement ceremonies
Luxury Hotels
L'Auberge Carmel
Direct Booking: laubergecarmel.com/reservations
La Playa Carmel
Direct Booking: laplayahotel.com/reservations
Ocean view rooms from $1,200
Mountain view rooms from $900
Features: Private hot tubs, spa, fine dining
Best for: Ultimate luxury experience
Forest view rooms from $800
Glamping options from $600
Features: Adults only, all-inclusive
Best for: Refined wilderness experience
Suites from $700
Villa suites from $1,200
Features: Wine program, spa, gardens
Best for: Wine country luxury
Suites from $600
Ranch rooms from $500
Features: Golf, tennis, hiking trails
Best for: Resort activities
Ocean view rooms from $600
Suites from $800
Features: Dramatic coastal views
Best for: Ocean vistas
Mid-Range Hotels ($300-600 per night)
Adobe rooms from $350
Cabins from $450
Features: Modern-rustic design
Best for: Redwood experience
Standard rooms from $300
Cottages from $400
Features: State park location
Best for: Nature access
Ocean view rooms from $400
Suites from $500
Features: Private balconies
Best for: Romantic getaways
Garden rooms from $350
Ocean view from $450
Features: Historic property
Best for: Carmel charm
Yurts from $320
Human nest from $400
Features: Unique accommodations
Best for: Glamping experience
Airbnb
Private romantic 1 br in Carmel Woods
Magical & Romantic Beachfront Home at Pajaro Dunes
Top of the World" Panorama Views of Monterey Bay!
New Luxury Cottage Minutes To Beach & Town!
Where to Stay
Quick Booking Links
Hotel Booking Sites
Comparison Sites
Must-See Places in Big Sur
Bixby Bridge
One of the most photographed bridges in the world, Bixby Bridge is an architectural marvel that perfectly frames Big Sur's dramatic coastline. Rising 260 feet above the canyon floor, this iconic structure has become a symbol of California's rugged central coast. Stop at the north turnout for the best views and photo opportunities.
Visitor Tips:
Best visited early morning or late afternoon
Multiple viewpoints available for different perspectives
Popular spot - expect other visitors during peak hours
Parking available at designated turnouts
Great whale watching spot during migration season
McWay Falls
This stunning 80-foot waterfall cascading directly onto a pristine beach is one of Big Sur's most magical sights. Located in Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park, this easy quarter-mile walking trail leads to an overlook with breathtaking views of the falls and coastline. While you can't access the beach below, the viewpoint offers perfect photo opportunities.
Visitor Tips:
$10 state park entrance fee
Easy, accessible trail suitable for all skill levels
Most beautiful during golden hour
Viewing platform can get crowded midday
Look for dolphins and whales from the overlook
Pfeiffer Beach
Known for its unique purple sand and massive rock formations, Pfeiffer Beach is a must-visit Big Sur destination. The beach's famous keyhole rock creates a spectacular show when the sun sets through it during winter months. This is one of the few easily accessible beaches in Big Sur, making it perfect for picnics and beach walks.
Visitor Tips:
$12 entrance fee (cash only)
Sometimes windy - bring layers
Turn onto unmarked Sycamore Canyon Road
Watch for purple sand patches near the north end
Best at sunset, especially December-January
Limited parking - arrive early
Point Lobos State Reserve
Often called the "Crown Jewel" of California's state parks, Point Lobos offers an incredible variety of wildlife, hiking trails, and scenic views. From sea lions and harbor seals to otters and whales, it's a wildlife photographer's paradise. The China Cove and Bird Island trails offer some of the most spectacular coastal views in the area.
Visitor Tips:
Arrive early to secure parking
Bring binoculars for wildlife viewing
Several easy walking trails available
Great tidepooling at Weston Beach
Excellent scuba diving spot
Dogs not allowed on trails
Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park
Home to ancient redwoods and stunning coastal views, this park offers the perfect blend of forest and ocean. The Ewoldsen Trail takes you through old-growth redwood groves, while the Waterfall Overlook Trail leads to McWay Falls. It's an excellent spot for experiencing Big Sur's diverse ecosystems.
Visitor Tips:
Several trail options for different skill levels
Bring water and wear good hiking shoes
Pack layers - weather can change quickly
Great bird watching opportunities
Redwoods provide shade on hot days
$10 state park entrance fee
Henry Miller Library
This charming bookstore and cultural center captures Big Sur's artistic spirit. Surrounded by towering redwoods, the library hosts live music, art shows, and other cultural events. It's the perfect spot to browse books, enjoy a coffee, and soak in Big Sur's creative atmosphere.
Visitor Tips:
Check event calendar for special programs
Free admission
Unique gift shop with local art
Outdoor seating available
Limited hours - check website
Regular literary and musical events
General Tips for Visiting These Locations
Start your day early to avoid crowds
Download offline maps before your trip
Bring layers - coastal weather changes quickly
Carry cash for entrance fees
Pack water and snacks
Allow plenty of time between stops
Fill up on gas before entering Big Sur
Check road conditions before traveling
Remember that Big Sur's beauty extends far beyond these famous spots. Take time to explore the numerous pullouts along Highway 1, and don't be afraid to stop when something catches your eye - some of the best experiences here are unplanned.
Where to Eat in Big Sur
Iconic Restaurants
Nepenthe
Perched 800 feet above the Pacific Ocean, Nepenthe is more than just a restaurant - it's a Big Sur institution. Known for its famous Ambrosia Burger and breathtaking sunset views, this historic spot has been serving travelers since 1949.
What to Know:
Reservations not accepted
Peak times: 12pm-3pm, sunset hours
Famous for: Ambrosia Burger, sunset views
Price: $$-$$$
Hours: 11:30am-10pm daily
Café Kevah (downstairs) offers breakfast with same views
The Village
Big Sur's newest culinary destination, The Village offers a fresh take on California coastal cuisine. Their open-air dining space and locally-sourced menu perfectly capture the Big Sur spirit.
What to Know:
Reservations recommended
All-day dining options
Local, seasonal menu
Great coffee and pastries
Price: $$-$$$
Modern, airy atmosphere
Big Sur Bakery
A charming spot housed in a rustic ranch-style building, Big Sur Bakery is beloved for its wood-fired pizzas, fresh pastries, and cozy atmosphere.
What to Know:
Best for: Breakfast and lunch
Must-try: Morning pastries, wood-fired pizzas
Coffee service starts at 8am
Price: $$
Weekend brunch is popular
No reservations for breakfast/lunch
Sierra Mar at Post Ranch Inn
Offering one of the coast's most spectacular dining experiences, Sierra Mar combines innovative cuisine with panoramic ocean views.
What to Know:
Reservations required
Price: $$$$
Elegant dining experience
Wine cellar with 14,000+ bottles
Lunch and dinner only
Dress code: Smart casual
Roadhouse
A casual spot perfect for travelers, the Roadhouse offers hearty portions and a laid-back atmosphere.
What to Know:
Great for breakfast
Family-friendly
Price: $$
Casual atmosphere
Known for: Burgers, comfort food
Outdoor seating available
Casual Dining & Picnic Spots
Best Picnic Locations
Pfeiffer Beach
Tables available
$12 entrance fee
Protected from wind in certain spots
Point Lobos State Reserve
Multiple picnic areas
Ocean views
Tables near parking areas
Big Sur River Gorge
Riverside spots
Shaded areas
Easy access
Garrapata State Beach
Coastal views
No facilities
Free parking
Local Markets & Provisions
Big Sur Deli
Sandwiches made to order
Basic groceries
Local wines and beers
Hiking snacks
Open daily
Big Sur River Inn General Store
Picnic supplies
Basic groceries
Local products
Camping supplies
Coffee Spots
Big Sur Roadhouse
Morning coffee service
Outdoor seating
Pastries available
WiFi available
The Village
Artisanal coffee
Fresh pastries
Modern atmosphere
Open early
Planning Your Meals
Tips for Dining in Big Sur
Make dinner reservations well in advance
Carry cash - some places have limited cell service for cards
Most restaurants close earlier than city establishments
Prices tend to be higher due to location
Consider packing lunch for hiking days
Check hours - many places close between lunch and dinner
Picnic Packing Essentials
Blanket or portable chairs
Reusable water bottles
Portable trash bag
Sunscreen and hat
Layers for changing weather
Cutting board/knife for prep
Remember that dining in Big Sur is about more than just the food - it's about the experience. Take time to enjoy the views, and don't rush your meals. Some of the best moments happen when you slow down and savor both the cuisine and the surroundings.
California Marriage License Guide
The Basics
Getting married in Big Sur requires a California marriage license, which you can obtain from any county clerk's office in California. You don't need to be a California resident, and you don't have to get your license in the same county where you're getting married.
Types of Marriage Licenses
California offers two types of marriage licenses:
Public Marriage License
Most common choice
Requires an officiant and one witness
Valid for 90 days from issue date
Marriage becomes public record
Cost: $75-$100 (varies by county)
Confidential Marriage License
Requires couple to be living together
Must be 18 or older
No witness required
Marriage record is private
Cost: $75-$100 (varies by county)
Nearest County Clerk Offices
Closest to Big Sur
Located near Monterey Regional Airport
Appointments recommended
Processing time: 20-30 minutes
Location: 168 West Alisal Street, Salinas
Hours: Monday-Friday, 8am-4:30pm
Cost: $90
Appointment: Required - [Book here]
Bring:
Valid government ID
Social security numbers
Payment (card or cash)
Santa Cruz County Clerk
About 1.5 hours from Big Sur
Walk-ins accepted
Processing time: 20-30 minutes
What You'll Need
Both parties must appear in person
Valid government-issued photo ID
Payment (cash or credit card)
Previous marriage information (if applicable)
Appointment (recommended)
Important Tips
Plan to get your license at least one day before your ceremony
County offices are only open Monday-Friday
Arrive early for your appointment
License is valid for 90 days from issue date
No blood test is required in California
No waiting period after receiving a license
After Your Ceremony
Officiant must return signed license within 10 days
Marriage certificate arrives 4-6 weeks later
Order extra copies if needed for name changes
Alternate Options
If you prefer to handle the legal marriage at home:
Get legally married at your local courthouse
Have a symbolic ceremony in Big Sur
No license needed for symbolic ceremonies
Remember: Planning a weekday visit to the county clerk's office is best, as offices are closed on weekends and holidays. Your photographer or planner can typically serve as your witness if needed.
